DARK WHOLE :
Self-Exploration of the Anu$
online: "the body holds many secrets"
⚫ DARK WHOLE is a two hour session focused on healing and releasing tension, shame and pain from the anu$ area.
⚫ Relaxed ass(w)hole actually means relaxed whole body and relaxed whole being.
⚫ Anu$ is one place in the body where most of us hold a lot of unconscious tension. How tense is your anu$ right now?
- to what is probably the most taboo area of the body - is not only a self-healing act but also a planetary healing activism. ⚫ Giving loving attention
⚫ Connecting to this black hole of our body galaxy is a powerful act of reconnecting to the source.
⚫ The more you relax your ass(w)hole the less compulsion for control you will hold in your life.
"This is the craziest thing I have done on zoom! And... it was fun." ~Karo
"I can't believe that touching one place can relax the entire body to such an extend and in such a short time!" ~Ana
MAGIC OF THE ANU$
The anu$ holds many secrets... It can store unconscious tensions and years of holding shame, guilt and unprocessed emotions. It is the "darkest" of places in the body, symbolically speaking, and therefore it attracts what is unwanted. The magic is that it is still accessible! Seemingly, with a function of 'stuff going out of it' but it has notoriously been used in human history for - pleasure. Relax your ass and your whole life will relax!
Anatomically speaking, we share anu$ with any creature (with a digestive track) on this planet! Anu$ is the human's connection to the primal. Anu$ is also uniting us in our humanity beyond the separation of the polarities of masculine and feminine, which the genitals represent. Esoterically speaking, anu$ is a place in the body where we get an easy (and quite direct) access to the VOID energy. Connecting to this black hole of our body galaxy is a powerful act of reconnecting to the source.
WHO IS THIS FOR?
✔ Female bodies. Male bodies. Other bodies. We all have an anu$.
✔ It's for you if you have had painful and/or challenging experiences with your Anu$ in the past and wish to heal them.
✔ It's for you if you know or suspect that you hold some shame related to your Anu$ and want to release it.
✔ It's for you if you love your ass and can't get enough attention there!
✔ It's for you if you are only just curious about this place in your body and the potential it holds.
✔ It's for you if you are a CONTROL freak and desperate to find some surrender in life!
✔ It's for you whether you have done an@l work/play before or NOT.
✔ Welcoming people of all orientations and gender identities.
✔ Open for individuals and couples * (read more about couple arrangement in FAQ).
✔ Anyone who wants to continue into 2023 and beyond with a relaxed A$$ !
HOW DOES THE DARK WHOLE SESSION WORK?
The main technique applied during the DARK WHOLE session is called "the Sacred Spot". Sacred spot is a bodywork technique where we put our loving attention on the place of the most emotional or energetic charge. Yes, this you will apply on yourself, empowering you to create powerful impact on your being with your own finger, with your own attention.
The (self) bodywork session itself is about 45min. It's proceeded by a warm-up and sharing on the topics which come up for you related to your anu$.
Hi, my name is Aleksandra and I am the creator of the DARK WHOLE session. DARK WHOLE is inspired by my own fascination with the pleasures and surrender portal which the anu$ offers.
As I find myself standing for the FREEDOM OF TRUTH & SELF-EXPRESSION in my work, I find giving attention to the anu$ necessary.
In my own body, the one place I have noticed, which holds the most control and up-tightness was in my anu$.
As much as an@l work (and play) has been deeply transformative for my life, it took me years to not to be ashamed to talk about it! I would use to tell to my lover (after a pleasurable a. session) - "this stays between us!". I won't let you hold on to the same shame! We will go into this intimate space TOGETHER and share our adventures into surrender and relaxation.
I have worked with groups facilitating Temples and sex-positive spaces for over 10 years now and I love the magic of creating containers with sacredness, new culture, permission and consciousness of togetherness. Why I created the DARK WHOLE is because...
The intimate act of journeying together as a group into ONENESS SPACE of the body which the anu$ represents is a uniquely sweet and impactful phenomenon. Unashaming the most taboo-haunted place of the body in a group space is inspiring and liberating!
"The body hides many secrets", let's dive into the big DARK WHOLE together. Join me on this journey to free more self-expression and release the holding which doesn't serve your path any longer!
(ps. if you'd like to read more of my story and my qualifications check it out here).
WHAT DO PARTICIPANTS AND CLIENTS SAY ABOUT ALEKSANDRA'S WORK:
"I am witnessing in my body and consciousness an open and alignment very powerful. My pure natural and animal instincts are so much open and aware, I smell, see, and feel better all the senses are more accurate and refined! ... I feel more light and bright. As the sunny day and crystal night". ~J.
"I'm vibrating, highest, purest energy. I will use this condition to let go of old patterns. I met a few ugly shadow faces thank you!!! The whole event was so wisely and beautifully arranged, I'm grateful." ~Susan
"The session I received from Aleksandra was deeply touching me. Her calm and loving presence made me feel safe and I could surrender into my being while she was holding me. The session brought up a lot of stored and stuck emotions, and I'm grateful for all the healing that's happening". ~ Anna
"Before the event, I kept saying to myself and others that it was not the kind of experience I needed. But I turned out to be wrong! - this was exactly what I needed! This was the best sex-positive event I have been to so far!" ~Adi
"Before the event, I kept saying to myself and others that it was not the kind of experience I needed. But I turned out to be wrong! - this was exactly what I needed! This was the best sex-positive event I have been to so far!" ~Adi
"You were offering an invitation to come into deeper states of authenticity within our own spirituality, sensuality and se✖uality. This space was created with an invitation for everybody to raise their frequency, raise up their energy and become more into connection to divinity. The purity of that intention was carried through immensely into my body, into my heart and into my life".~Freya
"Dear all, This weekend was a bliss for me. I feel like I was in a dream and came back to my reality with a different and calmer way. I was reminded of how important it is to be in the moment, how happy we can be, whatever we are doing. This was wonderful. Hugs". ~ I.
"This session was very powerful for me, lots shifted and Aleksandra really held a space for transformation, I am deeply grateful and would totally recommend her to friends, and I have super high standards of who I recommend!". ~ Sonja
"You are such a present for the healing of this world. I loved how you hold the space. I love your energy. You must be an ancient priestess or something! Your presence in the room is very healing. Merci!!!" ~ Marianne
PRACTICALITIES
⚫ Take a moment to tune into your INTENTION for this Journey.
⚫ Zoom link to the event will land with you after registering.
⚫ You can join this event without EVER turning on your camera. i.e. you are welcome to stay anonymous. At the same time, I encourage you to switch your camera on at least for the first part of the event when we will do some sharing before the main ritual.
⚫ At any point, intimate parts of the body will NOT be revealed on camera during this call. (Any participants breaking this rule will be automatically taken off video mode or further off the call).
⚫ You are welcome to be nude with yourself during the ritual part (with your camera off).
⚫ Only the facilitator will be recorded on this call unless you unmute yourself.
⚫ Asking questions during the call is possible via written chat only.
⚫ Consuming alcohol or other mind altering substances during the event, on the day of the event or straight after the session is highly discouraged.
QUESTIONS about the event ? >>> contact Aleksandra directly at sacredblisstemple(@)gmail.com
WHAT TO BRING? & HOW TO PREPARE?
⚫ Make sure to have 2h of PRIVATE space for this event and that you will NOT be disturbed by other people, phones (or animals!) during the session.
⚫ Bring yourself in whatever mood you are. It's about showing up with whatever arises not about being in the perfect mood for this session.
⚫ Prepare your space: you will need about 2m2 of floor space to move and then a comfortable place to lie down or kneel down - soft space covered with a towel.
⚫ Bring your favourite lubrication. Simply coconut oil will do.
⚫ Trim at least one of your fingernails - middle or index finger of the leading hand - ideally all of the fingernails (if they are long).
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"This pink Rosebud desires some loving attention to open and unfold its beauty"
THIS IS PROBABLY NOTHING LIKE YOU HAVE EVER DONE ONLINE. THIS SESSION WILL KEEP SURPRISING YOU EACH TIME YOU GO BACK TO IT.
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(Includes: live event and lifetime access to the recording)*
* This is a Satisfaction Guaranteed event. Your money will be returned if you are not satisfied with the event and let us know about it up to 10 days after the event.
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
DO I NEED ANY SPECIAL TOOLS OR TOYS FOR THIS SESSION?
No, you can solely use your finger for this session. The invitation for the begining, is for everyone to start with a finger. Use of any anal toys is only if you have a strong call for it. In case, you are used to anal play and anal toys, I would rather encourage you to use your finger only and go much slower than usual to feel the subtleties. Very often the power is in your intention for the session (e.g. intention for healing ) more than the physical action.
WILL I HAVE TO ENTER MY ANU$ DURING THIS SESSION?
No, absolutely not. The sacred spot session is all about being present with the point that is relevant to you. A point which feels alive and perhaps charged but is still available and open. This might be another point on your body or area outside as you circle around the anu$. The anu$ will open when it is ready and you will feel it. Still if you do not have a full "yes" within yourself for exploring it, you do not go in. You can always go back to the recording of the session and have another go. There is nothing to achieve during this session. It's an exploration without a goal but with an intention.
HOW TO CLEAN? OR WHAT IF I'M WORRIED ABOUT THE HYGIENE?
There is no need to prepare your body in any specific way. It's always beautiful to come into a meaningful body ritual after a shower. If you are still concerned, douching before is an option (using a special tool to clean inside your rectum). For those of you extra aware of hygiene, using a glove for touching the anus might be a good option. For people with vulvas, please make sure to use one hand on the anus and the other on the vagina - if you wish to touch both - not to mix the secretions of the two.
WILL I STILL BENEFIT FROM THE LIVE SESSION IF I DON'T WANT TO TURN ON MY CAMERA AT ALL?
YES, you will! Absolutelly. Attending the live group session is very potent. The act of coming together and sharing the experience will likely enhance your process. If you choose to keep your camera off for the entire session this will be respected. You will still have a chance to share your experience with voice or in writing. Your sharing will not be on the recording.
HOW CAN I JOIN WITH MY PARTNER?
You can join with your partner / intimate friend / lover from ONE devise for the COUPLE ticket. This ticket is at reduced price. During the session you are encouraged to stay in your own individual spaces and NOT to interact together physically. It's a powerful thing to enter a ritual as a couple without following any of your default ways of connecting. Encouriging you to be compagnions on your journeys rather than feed off each others energy or experience. Stay at least 90% with your own experience.